Broken Dreams & Broken Bones: The Cost of Putting Others First
Manal Mashaal
In the context of pleasing people syndrome, it refers to negative psychological symptoms and signs that indicate the presence of an intellectual disorder in someone. This is represented by the person suffering from this intellectual disorder preferring the interests of people over his interests, and at the expense of his self-esteem and self-respect.
True story (Reem and Nabil), a trend on social media.
In short, Reem gave Nabil everything he needed (love, support, time, health, life, even a bit of it; She gave him everything).
Reem was waiting for her cousin to marry her. She had not waited five years for them to get married. He entered the wrong path with bad friends. And after he became an engineer, Nabil, there was nothing left. No money, no family, no job. He decided that he would look after his situation far from Reem. (I will marry customary). A marriage without responsibilities on the pretext that he is a man and has needs and that he has no money to marry Reem, the love of his life.
Reem heard Nabil talking and opened his heart on the phone with the blogger Omar Hussein Live. A friend of his named Ahmed Gharib was with him in a live called “Afsh Khayen”. What convinced him was that he was Reem’s psychiatrist and was trying to solve it. She entered intensive care after the shock with a nervous breakdown. She lost everything. Even her family after she donated her kidney and chose Nabil. The strange thing in the story is that his name is Nabil!
In another part of the world, a German model named Theresia Fischer extended her legs by 14cm / 5,5in
Her legs got broken and extended with telescopic rods to adjust the height. During the healing process, the rod and bone will grow together making the leg longer and stable. She had two different procedures, one back in 2016 and the second in 2022. Her legs are now 116cm / 3.8ft long.
Height before and after the extension procedure: 1.70m / 5.5ft - 1.84m / 6.0ft and the healing process will take about 8 years.
She broke her bones to please her boyfriend and he broke up with her and broke her heart.
Do you know a friend who can break a bone or sacrifice his/her kidney to please you?????
